I’ll have a quickie thanks…
A 30-something gal I know recently met a British fellow on holidays in Australia. They had three blissfully days snogging, drinking and shagging, then he popped off back to England to get on with his real life. We thought the case was closed, but the next thing we heard, she was packing her bags for a three week trip to Old Blighty. When she got back – she was engaged. Six weeks after she met him. Six weeks. Now, that’s great news for singles who think they’re never going to get hitched. Take heart. If you get your skates on, you could actually be saying ‘I do' before the year is out. But, seriously, as excited as I am for my racing-to-the-alter-as-we-speak friend, do quickie marriages actually work? Once the chemical lust stuff has worn off, will you be left with some bloke you hardly know?
Personally, I would love to be so sure about a person after a few weeks that I could happily pledge the rest of my life to them. But, truthfully, I’d like to take a good look at their living habits first – do they leave the toilet seat up? Do they know how to use a washing machine? Do they think putting bread in a toaster is cooking? Hell, call me crazy, but I’d even like to meet a few of their friends and family before I’m whisked off for dress fittings and menu tastings.
On the other hand, maybe these fast vows are just as likely to succeed as the drawn-out, 10 year courtships that seems to be the Gen X norm. My aunt and uncle got hitched after a few weeks together and they’re still going strong – 35 years later. Still, there’s always a train-wreck to put you off...anyone remember the name of that bloke that Britney said I do to in Vegas? Does she I wonder?
Tell me: Would you do a quickie marriage? Do they work?




6 Comments:
At May 04, 2007 10:29 AM,
pollypringle said…
Ohhhh it sounds all romantic, but I would always worry that there was some unliveable part of his personality lurking if I married someone so quick.
I'd like to think i would wait a decent amount of time... maybe 18 months. But famous last words... :)
At May 06, 2007 12:57 AM,
truebeliever said…
All you need is love
waha wah wawah love love
all you need is love love
love is all need
A friend once said to me....You walk through life following your own path, then one day you meet someone who wants to hold your hand and walk with you, the steps you take will always be different with twists and turns and smooth and rocky patches...but always holding hands
At May 07, 2007 10:27 AM,
pollypringle said…
what a beautiful sentiment truebeliever. don't think i've seen ya round these parts...
RC seems strangely AWOL... could she be off having a quickie... marriage??? :-)
At May 08, 2007 3:35 PM,
Bubble Girl said…
WHAT??? RC has eloped??? Ohmigod.
PS. Is that how rumours start???
And for my 2 cents worth, if you're always going to hold hands then what is the rush? Would the world really end if you waited even 6 months to see that it is not just an illusion that you are in love with? With my last ex I could totally see a future for us together and I'm sure he could too . . . in the beginning. Things looked very different after he started freaking out at about the 4 month mark :-(
At May 08, 2007 4:20 PM,
Jo said…
I seriously think u have to do a year round n live with them! But hey who am I to say, I am still single!
At May 09, 2007 3:32 PM,
reality chick said…
Hey! I haven't eloped - just popped off for er, a 'quickie' holiday...
Love, love this comment about holding hands true believer :)
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