tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-66231982803864106312009-04-27T17:56:41.417-07:00Got a question? Let me have a crack at itreality chickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00912204867251082473noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6623198280386410631.post-2528540554194962332008-07-05T19:38:00.000-07:002008-07-05T20:15:20.924-07:00

Dear Reality Chick, I have recently broken up with my girlfriend of over a year (6 weeks ago). We often fought about things that other people put in her head and everytime we had a awesome weekend or night out she seemed to start a fight or go in a different direction. She recently told me she is going to make life all about her and put herself first in every way. The following week I lose my job

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Dear Reality Chick, Yes, I am this boring! I feel that I am in love with my best friend, who loves me too but not in the way I want. Age old story I know but here's the kicker: How do you get over someone who doesn't want you but you see every week socially? We do so much together, movies, dinners, drinks, going away, you name it...I enjoy his company so much I just feel like I will lose him if I

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I have been with my boyfriend for two years and I really love him. He is my first serious r'ship. I’m 19 and he’s 20. He was really stupid enough to tell me and my mum all about his past relationships. And I mean everything about them - all the sexual details too! In total I’m his 12th girlfriend. I feel like I am just a number. I know everything about all of them and I hate that. Not all his

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Quick question RC. Just how long should you wait after you boyfriend dumps you before you move onto the next one? Dumped Look, there’s no hard and a fast rule for this one, Dumped. Many people believe you can’t get over the old one without getting under a new one. Flings are fun and you can try them out as soon as you feel emotionally stable and confident you can handle sleeping with someone new.

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I need you to fix my faulty man magnet. Lately, I’ve had stalkers, married men, drug pigs and various other reprobates on my tail. I suspect it has something to do with my very blonde hair, which I recently toned down, but who knows? HannahI’ve heard about the dangers of peroxide, Hannah, but this is ridiculous. Your faulty man magnet may have nothing to do with your hair and everything to do

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Here's my embarrassing problem. I am 25 and have been sexually active since I was 19. I've never been able to come when I have had sex with a guy. I just thought maybe they didn't know what they were doing. But recently I have been having sex with this guy who really makes me feel really good – but for some reason, no matter how good it feels and how much it drives me crazy, I still can't come.

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Heelllllllp! Just broke up with my ex and I want to get him out of my system once and for all. What’s the best way to do that? Newly single Hey Newly Single. Everyone cleanses their system differently after a big break-up, but here’s some sure-fire ways to make yourself feel like you’re moving on after a break-up. - Run, walk, swim, cycle, yoga, pilate, surf. In other words, get out there in the

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I just broke up with my de facto who decided quite coldly that I wasn’t the one. I’ve been gutted by this. We’re doing no contact, but as long as he avoids me he seems to think it’s cool to rock up at the house we used to share and hang out with my brother (who lives with me), go golfing with him or surfing. My brother is really cruisy and thinks this is totally fine. Even though I’m crying every

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I dumped my boyfriend about 18 months ago, because of the very reason of your column last week – he loved his X-Box more than me. in fact he used to make me feel like a nympho for wanting sex more than once a month. I don’t want another relationship just yet and it's not like I got any with him, but I find myself CLIMBING THE WALLS without regular action now I'm single. I’m over my vibrator big

reality chickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00912204867251082473noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6623198280386410631.post-24581458615464038152007-02-22T23:09:00.000-08:002007-02-25T04:03:46.438-08:00

I just started sleeping with a new man. He’s older than me. Like, 20 years older (in his 50s). Thing is, he always seems to have a hard-on, even after we've... you know. When I asked about it, he claimed it’s just a medical condition, and changed the subject. I know you’re not a doctor, but I just wondered, would you have any idea of what medical condition it might be? MandyYou’re right, Mandy, I

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Recently, I had a short-lived fling with an already-attached work colleague. It was fun for a while, but a few months ago I met someone single I really liked and started seeing him seriously. The problem is, my fling from the office is still flirting with me and asking me to meet up with him, even though I’ve made it clear I’ve moved on. What should I do? One’s Enough Dear One’s Enough. Sure, you

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Reality chick, help! I broke up with my husband because I thought he was doing the dirty with the receptionist from his work – mobile phone bills showed they’d been messaging A LOT. He denied it all, so now we’re back together. However, he’s now insisting he invite the receptionist and one of his ex girlfriends to a huge birthday bash I am throwing for him AND paying for. I’m not comfortable with

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Yes us girls expect roses, or any flowers for that matter, a nice gift, being taken out for dinner, you name it, but what should us woman be buying our men to show them we love them? WonderingGood question, Wondering. Because when it comes to V-Day, it's all about what women want. I mean just LOOK at the merchandise. Fluffy white bears, red ribbons, pink roses, mushy cards, boxes of chocolates.

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My boyfriend’s not at all romantic so he shocked the life out of me when he asked what I wanted to do next Wednesday night (being Valentines Day). I said that I have my tennis finals, so could we make it another night? He said no, he said I either go that night or not at all! What do you think I should do? JoSounds like your boy is employing the sneaky but effective

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I recently dated three girls in one week. I then picked the best of the three to follow up with. After 3 weeks of focussing on the best of the bunch she confessed that she was dating another guy simultaneously. As a guy I then felt a) less attracted to her and not as keen to kiss her and b) cheated of the opportunity to keep dating the other two girls I had given up on to focus on her.I guess I

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Reality chick, I need your help. I broke up with my ex two months ago. Last week, he texted me to wish me happy birthday and told me he was still thinking about me and we agreed to catch up on sunday. It was a bit weird at first, but with wine helping, we had a good day at the end. We talked a lot and we tried to see what was wrong and I'm kind of still attracted to him, and him me. Shall I add

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Hey RC. Having nursed my broken heart it’s now time to get back in the game - but rather than trawl bars and nightclubs I thought I might give the classifieds a whirl. But how do I sell myself without looking cheap? Funny GirlThat's today's million dollar question. And although I’ve done my time in the dating trenches I have not, as yet, tackled the classifieds. So, in the interests of research,

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I'm on a second date with a girl I met in a bar - she is a pump class junkie. We’ve just had a pub dinner and I am dropping her home in my car. Farewell kiss ensues and we end up ‘parking’ and making out. While we are having a break she ends up poking my abs 3 or 4 times. Is this the sign of a girl that is only after 'one thing'?Peter Pan Personally, Peter, if I’m only interested in 'one thing',

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What is wrong with me? I seem to attract women who either only want to be "friends". I am alright looking, nothing special but I don't need to hide under a paper bag, I am told that I am quite funny, even if I don't always intend it, quite caring and like to try to make life as fun as possible. For some reason after a couple of dates I always end up in the same situation, being a shoulder to cry

reality chickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00912204867251082473noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6623198280386410631.post-22027275289311887252007-01-17T18:03:00.000-08:002007-01-19T00:35:31.004-08:00

I’m 34, really clucky and have been with my boy for six years. My trouble is, there’s no ring, no sign of a ring and only a deer-caught-in-headlights look whenever marriage is mentioned (family gatherings are hell). I leave wedding mags lying around and always ooh and ahh over jewellery shop windows, but he just won’t take the hint. What’s up with that? Susie MBeats me. But after spending years

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I’m seeing a new guy and he’s hot. He’s sweet to me, funny, great in bed and always making me feel like a total princess. But the other day, on our one-month anniversary, he told me he loves me. I said thanks and was freaked because I think six months is pretty average to know you’re really in love with someone. Help! Freaked OutHmmm, tricky one. Let me see if I understand you correctly: your guy

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I've been with my girlfriend for over two years and it's been good. Not perfect, but pretty good. Until she went out clubbing with a friend, took a concoction of drugs and ended up shagging some guy. I found out about it, we had a fight and she admitted it wasn't the first time she'd cheated - but promised it would be the last. I can forgive her, but I can't forget about it. Should I stay?

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