The dating scene

Going travelling… but just met a guy!

Oct 5th, 2009 | By

Isn’t this just typical? After years of dating unsuitable blokes, I threw caution to the wind and booked a flight to London with a view to relocating for a couple



Ex in his bed … a red flag?

Oct 2nd, 2009 | By

I have been dating this guy for a month and he just told me at lunch that his ex – who’s from out of town – visited him a few...



Am I being a snob about my new guy?

Sep 28th, 2009 | By

I've just started casually dating a guy who seems really sweet and interesting. He is into meditation, travelling, reading self help books, and I like the fact he is quiet...



A hairy moment

Sep 25th, 2009 | By

I’ve met a handsome, funny guy through a mutual friend. We are both in our early thirties and ready for a long term relationship – about time! Only snag is,



Why does he text instead of call?

Sep 13th, 2009 | By

Hey RC, I’ve got a good question for you. Why is it that every guy I meet lately persists in continually and randomly texting me (rather than just calling me



How can I stop attracting weirdos?

Sep 7th, 2009 | By

I need you to fix my faulty man magnet. Lately, I’ve had stalkers, married men, drug pigs and various other reprobates on my tail. I suspect it has something to



Am I ready for another relationship?

Sep 7th, 2009 | By

Quick question RC. Just how long should you wait after you boyfriend dumps you before you move onto the next one? Dumped Look, there’s no hard and a fast rule



Major crush on my best friend

Apr 25th, 2008 | By

Dear Reality Chick, yes – I am this boring! I feel that I am in love with my best friend, who loves me too but not in the way I want.



How do I flick my office fling?

Feb 21st, 2008 | By

Recently, I had a short-lived fling with an already-attached work colleague. It was fun for a while, but I eventually started feeling guilty and then a
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Is multiple-dating a bad thing?

Feb 1st, 2008 | By

I recently dated three girls in one week. I then picked the best of the three to follow up with. After 3 weeks of focussing on the best of the